Tag: freedom

What the Pandemic has taught me about People-pleasing and Procrastination

What the Pandemic has taught me about People-pleasing and Procrastination

What happens when you take a recovering people-pleaser and chronic approval addict and take away the majority of the people from her life? She gets a wide open space, suitable for both flailing and dreaming with nobody watching. And it turns out, some things actually 

A Seat at the Table:(Wo)Man Flourishing

A Seat at the Table:(Wo)Man Flourishing

I recently invested hours reading theological arguments defining roles of women in the church (by Matt Chandler and his church) and listened to an interview with Gospel Coalition members Tim Keller, John Piper and Dale Carson. (Is that not what most stay-at-home moms do in 

Confessions of a Church Girl: The Battle in My Heart

Confessions of a Church Girl: The Battle in My Heart

I just watched this brief message by Ashley Matthews on Gender Equality in the church. (I highly recommend as a launching point for rethinking what it means to support women, especially in church culture.) Of all the things she said, what resonated most with me 

I’m Stressed, You’re Stressed- And How We can Help Each Other

I’m Stressed, You’re Stressed- And How We can Help Each Other

“Yeah, you’re stressed and now you’re stressing me out and everyone else!” Said my 8 year old boy. When did my 2nd grader become a conniving wee therapist who could deftly wield a shovel to simultaneously unearth my mood and bury my parental authority alive? 

The Cost of God’s Best Story for You

The Cost of God’s Best Story for You

“Your homework this week is to seek out difficult conversations.” My life coach had built me up and helped me pull out my mission statement, but then she left me with those jarring words.  Not only did she want me to respond boldly to difficult