Dear Useless Junk

Dear Useless Junk

Dear Useless Junk, Perhaps at first you thought those white plastic bags you’re in were part of a stretchy and misguided redecorating spree.  I don’t know how to say this nicely, but the reality is you simply can’t stay anymore.  I can’t spend another minute knowing that 

You Are Here

You Are Here

My most philosophical lesson this week came quite unexpectedly from my three year old. I picked him up from preschool and we went with a friend to New Haven CT to volunteer at Love146 for a couple hours.  (BTW, they are absolutely a fantastic organization, 

Parenting SOS!

Parenting SOS!

“Honey, put down the markers, we don’t color on ourselves…or the wall..or the floor…just paper.  PAPER!!  Is that so difficult a concept?” “If your sister says stop, then STOP!” “When we get in the car, we sit down and we buckle up.  I shouldn’t have 

The Week My Compassion Broke

The Week My Compassion Broke

You know those blog posts that start with a problem and end with a cute little moral, a “you-can-do-it” pep talk, or at least an inspirational quote with a gorgeous panoramic picture? I know you’re starting to feel a little warm and fuzzy at the 

Dear Anarchist Sons

Dear Anarchist Sons

Dear Anarchist Sons of Mine (age 3 and 6 respectively), Where to start?  Your attention spans are short, so I’ll begin by saying the important: I’ll love you in and out, through and through till the day I die.  This, however, is because my love isn’t a 

‘Twas the Night Before Christmas (Reality Redo)

‘Twas the Night Before Christmas (Reality Redo)

‘Twas the night before Christmas, And all through the house, Of course there was “stirring”, but it wasn’t the mouse, (On a side note, we think there’s a mouse in the basement, Because of the droppings in obvious placement). The children won’t “nestle”, they don’t know 

Warning: High Maintenance Areas

Warning: High Maintenance Areas

I’m not high maintenance.  Pff.  Absolutely not.  Yes, I’ve been buying more clothes from for-real stores and from fair trade/wages organizations like Imagine Goods and Amani Ya Juu,  but I’m still a thrift shop girl at heart.  My long hair means I don’t have a “salon” so much 

Call it Creativity?

Call it Creativity?

It was Tuesday morning, circa 8:50am: homeschool co-op day was upon us, where I’ve been entrusted with an hour of activities and playtime for the boisterous toddler set.  Except I had no activity planned. My fully-adult baby brother and sister came to visit the night 

You Homeschool Too

You Homeschool Too

Today I started my second year of homeschooling my kids.  I’m not a saint- really homeschooling is just trading some problems for others.  When my daughter went to public kindergarten, mornings were essentially a drill to see how late we could get up without missing the bus. 

When Your Role-Shifter is Stuck

When Your Role-Shifter is Stuck

I’m a wife- a mom- a sister- a writer- a coffee drinker- a fan of Tom Selleck. (But that’s probably for another post.)  I’m lots of things simultaneously, because…well, aren’t we all?  Some of who I am overlaps neatly: coffee, for instance, can work quite